While my mom was growing up family
was a big part of her life. Her mother, my grandma, had 4 sisters, 2 brothers,
and a total of 22 cousins. During the year they would all gather every Sunday,
and during the summer on Saturdays also, at her grandparents house on the
river. In 1954 her grandpa became the superintendent of the River Boat Patrol
at Griggs Dam in Columbus, Ohio. It was after retiring from the Columbus Police
Department after 22 years that he took the job on the river. With that job came
the house on the river where my mom and her family would all gather. The house
was always full of family and friends and even people that were out on the
river boating would stop in to grab a bite to eat or join in on the poker
games. My mom’s grandma would always be busy cooking in the kitchen preparing
pies, noodles, and biscuits from scratch for family and friends. During the
warmer months of the year my mom and all her cousins would go play on the
outdoor stone amphitheater, which they would call their castle. In the winter
the older kids would take the younger ones outside to go sledding, play in the
snow, and ice skate.
This story about my mom’s childhood is important to me
because over time I think people can lose track of what is important in life
such as family. When I think back to these stories it makes me appreciate the
time that I have gotten to spend with all of my cousins and the memories that
will be passed on through generations like my mom has passed hers down.
Reading your story about your family gatherings, it really surprised me they were not from Appalachia. It seems like your family encapsulated the very values that Appalachian's hold true to their culture. Theirs and yours together provide a sense of strong family bonds, neighborliness, and love of place.
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